Psychology of Success

Why did I choose this book as the first translated work? Perhaps it's because this book is a systematic summary of what I've always wanted to tell the people I love. I have also been a fixed minded person (a definition you will learn in this book), and have the classic characteristics of this thinking. I dare not try anything new, easily give up before something that can reveal my weaknesses, and always worry that I look stupid in everyone's eyes. Then, in a way, my mind changed at an unknown time. It was still jittery to try something new, but now it was exciting, stimulating, and I still dived in doing what I was afraid of. There was still a time when I was frustrated by a difficult task, but then I forced myself to continue and perfect it. When someone previously thought that I couldn't do something, I would do the opposite to show that they were wrong. Now whether someone tells me that or not, I am constantly searching for new things to challenge myself, and this time not for someone, or for the honor, but for the sake of development of myself. There are things that I previously thought I couldn't change, especially those of the personality that has lived with me for 25 years, but now I have erased them (if not completely). those habits. More importantly, I always feel nowhappy whenever someone sees me and point out the shortcomings: "Thank you! I will fix it! Any more shortcomings? Say continue! Say continue!!!" without feeling narcissistic - still ashamed, but not narcissistic.